It's pretty sad, but as I go back and read a lot of my old blogs, I feel like a total idiot. A really really big part of me wants go and delete all of them because I am so embarrassed by them, but then I rethought that decision.
All my past blogs were intense thoughts that were going through my mind at the time I wrote them. They mean something to my life because I have felt all of those things and it is almost like looking back at myself from a future perspective.
As embarrassing as they can get because I pretty much threw everything in my head out into the open, I am going to leave them there for future references.
Basically, what I am trying to say is that there are going to be things in your life that happen that you are completely embarrassed about, but NORMALLY, there isn't just a delete button to make it go away. You have to live with it and be okay with that.
A big saying in my life is to never regret the things that made me happy. Those blogs are a part of my past life that made me happy because they let me express how I was feeling and that should be important in anyones life.
So don't try to rid yourself of the past. It has brought you to the present. And if you don't like the present, use the future to change that. We all have the power to make our lives better so use that to your advantage and be happy so when you look upon your past, you can embrace it.
About Me
- WanderingSoul82
- My name is Samantha, though anymore people just call my Sam, which is okay, but I do prefer Samantha. I still have a whole life ahead of me, and even though it may get tough and complicated at times, I still find ways to get through it. I am surrounded by people I absolutely love and adore, as well as people who are just there, but that is pretty much the life of a human. I absolutely love school, it's the one thing in life that I am good at. I hold a steady job and get involved in clubs at school. I absolutely love Forensics club, and its not the study of dead bodies, but rather a speech club. For the most part, people like me and I have a deep way of thinking most of the time, even though I try not to show it, but perhaps, in this blog, I just might.
Tuesday, October 19, 2010
JUDGERS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Most people extremely dislike people that judge a book by its cover. The thing is, everyone does it. It is something that is competely unavoidable. As humans, we all judge, therefore, we all probably judge a book by it's cover, metophorically and literally.
The problem doesn't come with judging, it's more so not knowing how to judge. I know, I know, that sounds pretty low and shallow. But it's true. There are people out there that can read a person as if they were an open book, and then there are the people that think they can and just have their head up their ass for the warmth. Half the time, they aren't even aware of that fact. But I'm sure that every single person knows someone who is like that.
When you don't know your ass from a hole in the ground, you really shouldn't judge a book by it's cover. BUT! If you are one of those people that have a nack (sp?) for understanding people and knowing if you are going to be able to be friends with them the instant you see them, then GO FOR IT! You obviously know what you are doing. And you know if you are one of those people or not. If you have to ask yourself that question, then you aren't one of those people and that is just the cold hard truth.
On to the topic of just plain judging. There really isn't a damn thing wrong with it if you can judge properly (I mean how can it be so wrong if they literally have a job for judging XD). If you are just going to say something hurtful or unnecessary to be a jerk, then go sew your mouth shut and cover it with super glue (lets just hope you don't get a cold... cause then your noes would be clogged... and you probably wouldn't be able to breathe... and you would die... and that's bad... so just beware of that fact.)
Ok. That's it. I have lost motivation for this specific blog. Later.
The problem doesn't come with judging, it's more so not knowing how to judge. I know, I know, that sounds pretty low and shallow. But it's true. There are people out there that can read a person as if they were an open book, and then there are the people that think they can and just have their head up their ass for the warmth. Half the time, they aren't even aware of that fact. But I'm sure that every single person knows someone who is like that.
When you don't know your ass from a hole in the ground, you really shouldn't judge a book by it's cover. BUT! If you are one of those people that have a nack (sp?) for understanding people and knowing if you are going to be able to be friends with them the instant you see them, then GO FOR IT! You obviously know what you are doing. And you know if you are one of those people or not. If you have to ask yourself that question, then you aren't one of those people and that is just the cold hard truth.
On to the topic of just plain judging. There really isn't a damn thing wrong with it if you can judge properly (I mean how can it be so wrong if they literally have a job for judging XD). If you are just going to say something hurtful or unnecessary to be a jerk, then go sew your mouth shut and cover it with super glue (lets just hope you don't get a cold... cause then your noes would be clogged... and you probably wouldn't be able to breathe... and you would die... and that's bad... so just beware of that fact.)
Ok. That's it. I have lost motivation for this specific blog. Later.
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